There's been a lot of drama that I've been staying out of lately. And as much as I truly want to stay out it, I just can't anymore. When you're mad at your ex for whatever reason and you take it out on children, you're pathetic. There is no other way to say it and I won't beat around the bush about it. You are just pathetic. Men or women, I don't care. Grow up and stop using children as your pawns in your bullshit, pathetic, self-centered anger and resentment. I have dealt with the worst end of parenting when it comes to my daughter's father. At any time if he's got beef with me, he instantly takes it out on her. Even if I'm minding my business, doing well in life, and/or maybe dating someone long term, my happiness pisses him off and so he takes it out on her.
My sister is now going through a divorce and while everyone seems to think that all kids need both parents, I disagree. There is not a single positive thing my ex has brought to her life. On the flip side, he has another ex that they had a son together and she happens to be the worse parent of those two, which is hard to beat with him. So please let me be clear, it doesn't matter your gender in order for you to be a terrible parent. My sister's ex has as of lately has taken a turn for the worse, which I didn't really see coming because I liked him and the girl he's dating. He had his kids one full day of summer vacation and then told my sister he couldn't do it and work. As if he's the only person who has had to work and parent at the same time. He then also tells her that he's moving three hours away within days of leaving with his girlfriend and her son. All over social media he's daddy to this child, which I'm not against in any way, children are meant to be universally loved, what I am against is the continual stories I hear about him being a failure to his own offspring.
I also don't appreciate anyone putting my sister on blast on social media. I don't talk much to my sister, and trust me she's dumb in her own right for being so incredibly public with things that aren't meant to be, but at the end of the day she's still my sister and those boys are still my love and joy. At some point, someone needs to grow up and be the bigger person because if not, someone bigger than you will come along. Grown ass adults who cyber bully other adults disgust me to no end. How do you honestly live with yourself knowing that you're the lowest form of human out there. That when real life issues arise, you can't deal with them within reasonable measures.
So while I hate any drama being brought into my life, I'll welcome it if I need to protect children and if I can help anyone realize that your own pride and ego come last to innocent children caught in your cross fire. Adults everywhere, you have got to know that you aren't the only one to dislikes you're ex or hates them; you know that right?! Relationships not working out while children are involved are forever going to be a thing, so get a grip!
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