Facepalm Official

I'm sorry that I was one of those "look at my relationship" people on Facebook all this time. In my defense, I was actually doing it in pure intentions. For those that continue to parade their relationships, here's what you don't know about them, or what their partners don't know. 

〰 He asked me out on a date one week before you two went Facebook official. 

〰 When you aren't around, he contacts me, in the most inappropriate ways. 

〰 She tells everyone the marriage is over, when clearly it's not. 

〰 When she drinks, she's single. 

〰 We were still together apparently when you two were still together. 

〰 She says pretty rotten things about you. 

〰 He begs me to be his side chick. No matter how many times I say no.

〰 She publicly shames you. 

Whether these relationships last or don't last aren't my concern. I just hate being a keeper of secrets. Though some of these instances are out in the open. Having self respect is extremely important, just as important as being aware of red flags in your relationship. 

When something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. Putting God first and as your focus for the both of you will benefit you as well. And by all means, do not allow anyone to disrespect you or make you feel like you can't survive without them. You can, and you will.