Would you please STOP airing your dirty laundry on social media! No one wants to hear you drag your spouse or partner through the mud anymore. You are a grown ass adult, it's about time you act like it. Not to mention, may I please point out that I don't know how you could find someone to replace said person when you have the kind of character that shows no respect for someone you choose to be with, and you can't just be an adult and move on from something you're not happy with.
The fact that one week everything is great, you're vacationing, moving in together, or having a baby and then the next week, you would think the person you're railing publicly, burned your house down with your dog inside. Calm down already. Stop doing this back and forth, and not just for weeks but for months on end. It's probably the most unflattering thing you could be doing in your life.
If he beats you and then buys you jewelry, be sure that he will beat you again.
If she cheats on you but then gives you a baby, be sure she will cheat on you again.
I can't log onto Facebook anymore without seeing multiple relationship status updates that I would be embarrassed to post in my adult life. Now to be clear, I have absolutely done it in the past, but I will for sure not continue to do so as I grow older. I'm personally embarrassed for shaming my ex's and I would apologize till days end if they would listen, I also know that as I continued to get older and had relationships end, I won't say terrible things about some because I know that with the good comes the bad. Ultimately no one is perfect and the fact that you have so many problems that you need to air out for all your friends to see could be a result of you, not them.
While we're here, I would also like to make a request for people to stop complaining about their children online. In this digital age, there will probably come a point where your children will see all the crap "jokes" you put out there about them, and ultimately all your complaints. You chose to bring them into the world, it's now your job to man up and be a good parent. Be the type of parent you want them to be to your grandchildren, be the caregiver that you want them to be to you when you're too old to take care of yourself, be 1,000 percent less selfish and realize that your children come first before your need for girls/guys nights, sleep, or going to the bars.
I have tried at least a few times to either trade my child or sell her on the black market as jokes but out of frustration, and as I've said prior I've aired my dirty laundry when I shouldn't have. No one is perfect, the problem that I'm seeing though is that some people continue to age numerically but still stay the same with the mentality of a high school student. What are you doing if you're not striving to be better than you were yesterday or a year ago? Who do you want to be to the people around you? At the end of the line, how do you want to be remembered by people?
Knock it off, grow up, and share things that will draw people closer to you rather than push them away. I would delete Facebook if I could, except I have some great friends that share some great things that I wouldn't see as much of otherwise. Keep up the happy marriages, partnerships, and friendships. For the day you will die is unknown, don't let your complaining be what you leave as your legacy.
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